Showing posts with label children. Show all posts
Showing posts with label children. Show all posts

Monday, March 14, 2016

Are You A Part of the 45% of Americans Who Believe in Ghosts?

Photo by: Xoe A. Reid


Did you know that most people believe that ghosts are real?  A matter of fact, the book cover of my book, Tales of a Numinous Nature, is a photo of what my family thinks is a ghost.  My daughter took the picture in my mother’s empty living room with her cellphone on the negative setting.  What came out definitely looked like a woman with long hair.  Creepy! 

Ghost sightings are as old as the sun is bright.  From the Witch of Endor summoning the dead prophet Samuel in "The Bible" to The Flying Dutchman to Bloody Mary to The Lady in White to the mysterious Tsunami cab passengers in Japan to my grandmother visiting me in a dream, ghosts are a rich part of the human culture and folklore.

As odd and eerie as it seems, ghost sightings are way more common than we think.  According to A HuffPost/YouGov poll conducted in 2012 that interviewed 1000 people, 45% of Americans believe in ghosts.  The same poll revealed that 64% of people polled believe in life after death. 

According to the Pew Research Center survey conducted in 2009 that interviewed 2003 people, 18% of Americans claim to have actually seen ghosts:16% of men and 20% of women, 17% of them were white, and blacks and Hispanics tied with 20%. I speculate that the number is probably much higher, because most people are afraid to admit that they have come face to face with the unknown.

This data is extremely interesting.  In my personal experience, like in the data, I find that people of color and women are way more accepting of the spiritual realm.  I have undeniably had my share of the supernatural.

Some of the most common beliefs about ghosts or spirits are:
1.                  Spirits become more active at night.
2.                  Spirits can manifest in different ways such as orbs, streaks of light, shadows, mists, strange blurs, and full body appearances.
3.                  Children, animals, and the dying are more likely to see ghosts.
4.                  If the room gets suddenly cold or a door closes on its own or something moves unexplainably or a familiar smell permeates the air, a ghost is thought to be present.
5.                  Spirits are trying to get our attention, have no sense of time, and may not know they’re dead.
6.                  Spirits can communicate through dreams, through subliminal thoughts, white noise, automatic writing, divination, mediums, or simply appearing and talking to you directly.
7.                  Some spirits can be mischievous and sometimes very dangerous. 
8.                  Spirits can often be helpful and sometimes protective over their families.
9.                  Sprits can haunt places, follow people, and be attached to objects.
10.              All spirits may not be of dead people but something of an entirely different nature.

Many argue about the nature of spirits.  It is debated if they are souls of the dead, surreptitious spiritual beings, angels, demons, aliens, or figments of our imaginations.  Whatever they are, they are real to a lot of us and don’t seem to be going anywhere anytime soon.  

So, whether you believe in ghosts or not, there is something extremely alluring about the possibility.  The next time you think someone is behind you and turn and no one is there, smile, it’s probably your Aunt Bertha trying to give you a hug!

As always, love hard and live free!

Want to know more about speculative fiction author Violette Meier?  Visit www.violettemeier.com.

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Wednesday, July 1, 2015

Cool Cool Kids


 Children are such fascinating creatures.  I have three on them and they never cease to amaze me.  From their off center questions to their surreal dance moves, children make adults find it hard to imagine we were ever that small and full of wonder. Kids are a lot cooler than we could ever imagine.  That’s a big deal for me to admit because I think my children are the coolest kids in the world.  Here are ten cool things about children I bet you didn’t know.
  •  Between birth and 3 years old, is the fastest stage of human development.
  •  Children have 300 bones at birth but 206 in adulthood because many bones fuse together as the child gets older.
  • The average 4 year old asks over 400 questions a day.  (I think that’s low balling!)
  • In the 1600s, in England, boys and girls wore dresses until they were about 7 years old.
  • Pharaoh Ramses II had over 160 children.  (Talk about being fruitful and multiplying!)  
  • At birth babies have no knee caps.  (Since I’ve gained a few pounds, mine has disappeared as well.  Does that mean I’m looking younger? LOL)
  • 60% of the energy a baby uses in the brain. (The world would be a better place if never grew out of this!)
  • Alex Martin became the youngest card-carrying Mensa Member at age 3.
  • Youngest children usually grow up to have creative careers.
  • Watching TV can act as a natural pain killer for a child. (Step one in becoming a zombie.)
Hopefully these fun facts will give you a new appreciation to the little ones in the world.  Just another reason to love them even more!

To learn more about Violette, visit www.violettemeier.com. 

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